I had just finished watching the movie "The Jane Austin Bookclub" with my book club gals when I checked the time. 6:40!! Shoot, I had a "black tie optional" dinner to go to in the Bluffs at 7:00! Sorry gals for rushing you out! I'm proud to say that I got myself together (dress, pantyhose, make-up, hair brushed) and there at 7:10 as people were at the tables, but dinner had yet to be served.
I was invited to the dinner by one of the men being honored, so it wasn't something I wanted to blow off or arrive noticably late. About two minutes after I sat down- he stopped by the table to greet us. "Hi" "Glad you could make it." "Congratulations" etc. etc. I then was shocked to find that it wasn't the rudeness of my being late that was then noted in the exchange, but my audacity to only reply "plus one" to my invitation as we all stared at the empty chair beside me. I'm not sure if it was stated as "I was hoping" or "You know you could have" but bringing a guest (i.e. a date) was definately implied. "I RSVPed for one," I lamely responded to my host and then pathetically twice more to a couple sitting next to me at the table.
I (thankfully) repressed my desire to "defend myself" and report that only 24 hours earlier, I had in fact been out on a date with a respectable man and we both "hoped to do it again sometime." Argh! I'm not sure if I'm more frustrated with the unnecessary pressure that is put on people (I know men get this too)to not show up alone at these types of things or if I am angry at myself for getting flustered by it?
The Rave is OnBack to the beginning of my rant. . . book club was most excellent. It was wonderful to catch up on life events (Malia's upcoming wedding or Megan's pending graduation and Joanna's new kitchen)and eat good food (I served a cheese plate: brie, soft bleu cheese and a "stinky cheese.") As always my review of spending time with these magnificant ladies is a RAVE! Thank you for being a bright spot in my day and never EVER judging me for being a "plus one."